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Nov. 21st, 2009

Saying goodbye

I decided to go to the funeral, and I was very happy to do so. The man - [info]greatbuddah 's father-in-law had been loved by many, so many that the church was full, in fact, and the row of bouquets stretched from the coffin and down to the inner doors. He worked for the Danish Red Cross where he helped children and youngsters in the camps the Danish government has set up to hold the refugees while their requests for asylum are being processed.

I realized also how grief - or being near grief - can trigger your own grief to the point that you don't know why you cry and you wonder if anyone thinks it strange that you almost weep uncontrollably for a man you weren't that close to (but whose eldest daughter is among your best friends in the world). Because that happened to me. I've got a lot I still need to deal with, I think.

And then the day became absolutely great. Two other friends came to the funeral, and after the wake we all went to their place where I got reacquainted with their children (including the fist one I sponsored at her baptism) - especially their youngest, who's just over a year old and as cute as a button.

So now it's just 1 am, and I'm as happy as can be. Tomorrow there'll be a lot of practical stuff to see to, but for now, everything is surprisingly, unexpectedly wonderful.

And Sonnich, Rest In Peace. You got the best send-off anyone could ask for. And here's wishing for all the strength for Claus and Katrine they can get. They're probably gonna need it.

Nov. 20th, 2009

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Hm. Missed out on my one-positive-update-per-week pledge yesterday.

I stayed at home, because I still felt under the weather. No fever to speak of, but I have a hard time breathing. So I'm off to the doctor today to get a check for pneumonia. And then, afterwards, I think I'll go to the funeral of [info]greatbuddah 's father-in-law.

Other news as well, but I think they're for another day.

Nov. 18th, 2009

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I stayed at home today. Got my unemployment insurance papers in order and sent off. Though what good it'll do me, I don't know.

My life just became easier. Emptier but easier. Of course, it's got nothing to do with Vibeke. Just a bit of a mess I was getting myself into. I'm now watching Season 2 of ST:TOS. It's interesting how much it informs aspects of D&D - alignment-wise, "Mirror, Mirror" shows how a society of evil might work (Spock-2 being Lawful, Chekov-2 and Kirk-2 Chaotic).

Well, back to the series. Nothing good for me outside.

Nov. 17th, 2009

ill...

and then I got it...

Nothing good today. Except i got my mom out, and that enabled me to sleep for a few hours. So that was something.

And I NEED to be nicer to Annette...

Nov. 16th, 2009

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Well, it lasted for a year, and then Vibeke got really ill at my place. Sunday morning, she came in and said that she couldn't sleep and after a while, she complained that even the flimsiest sheet was too hot. Yup. Fever.

So we cancelled Vault - which was all right as Anna is down with the flu as well - and then we just stayed in, napped, read stories, and... watched A New Hope, which was her first, full-scale exposure to Star Wars. Yay! Dinner was a haphazard affair, but we got fed, and that's what's count.

Off-hand, I'd say life conspired a bit against me to keep me from posting good things every day for a week. But I'm sure it won't last.
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Nov. 15th, 2009

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Yesterday turned out to be a pretty good day. After getting up and ready, we got off to this small place in the country that specialized in selling tea, but also had a large Christmas selection as well as some of the best - and biggest - pancakes we've ever seen. At first, the GPS sent us off onto a forest path, but we called them, and got the right directions.

After two hours or so, we had had enough, so we went back to the city. My mom had called and asked if we wanted to go see a movie, which we did, of course.V and I were supposed to go to some friends for dinner, but their oldest had got The Flu, so it was cancelled. Instead, my friend came out to us for another movie, some wine, some Lagavulin and a beer. We watched State of Play, which we both found pretty good.

Today, we were to have begun playing Vault of the Iron Overlord, but now Vibeke is feeling under the weather. She started to at 5 am this morning. And I got to bed at quarter to two. Gah. So, no game today, and I gotta find something for us to eat. We'll see what happens.

Nov. 14th, 2009

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In some ways I feel a little sadder than earlier today. In others, I don't. While written on the same day as my previous update, I'll still consider this my second.

I swam, as I mentioned, and it doesn't really count. And I chatted to the nice girl in the baker's about it while getting a roll for late breakfast (turning into a hobbit, me)

I finished off a tricky writing assignment

I found two delicious bottles of red for dinner parties today and tomorrow

I managed to get V to ride the bike down to the bike shop, walk back, sit for a while, get out again, back for the bikes (fixed in record time), AND go up the hill for a dinner with the parents of one of Vibeke's school mates. Oh, and did I mention it was raining cats and dogs for the entire time out. Huge props to the kid.

I've just finished making a simplified character sheet for Vibeke's runechild elf sorcerer for the game Sunday.

Nov. 13th, 2009

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Yesterday was a good day.

I got some difficult writing done. I'm not finished, but I know what I'm doing now.

I went with Vibeke to visit my mom, and I made a strong effort to be cheerful and nice. We had Chinese at a nearby restaurant, and VIbeke loved it.

Tuesday is municipal and regional election, so school's closed. Vibeke didn't want to go to the after-school daycare. She wanted to go to my mother instead. I made sure it happened, and I am taking Vibeke there and back, because Annette couldn't quite deal with public transport.

I thought of a way for Vibeke to make extra cash when she's selling some of her old toys at an upcoming market. She will make gift cards for Christmas. The market's on the 27th, so a lot of people will start thinking about presents.

And this morning, I swam 1000 metres.

One good day down. Six to go.
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Oct. 29th, 2009

And now for something completely different...

I rmembered this Danish jazz singer, and since I've discovered that I can download a boatload of music for free through my broadband plan, I got hold of an album where she interprets some Danish classics. Now, she's also made an English version, and I would be remiss if I didn't give it my heartiest endorsement:

http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewAlbum?id=307685913&s=143458

Now, I just hope you Yanks can actually buy it... 
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Aug. 27th, 2009

...and now to something completely different

Monte's and my adventure was the 36-best selling digital RPG product of 2008. Considering that it contained a rather special map, that's not too shabby.

Jul. 31st, 2009

And that was it...

Well, last day, and then it's off to pick up Vibeke on the island of Langeland.

I'm still quite sad to leave. And there isn't that much that makes sense when it comes to why I've been let go. But what's done is done, and now it's a matter for me to move on. In this economical climate it'll take work and luck, but as I'm financially safe(-ish) for now, I 'm better off than many others.

As of early Sunday morning, I'l be incommunicado, as I'm off to the island of Samsø to ride a horsewagon around for a week with Vibeke. I'm stressed out about it, and somewhat worried, but when it's over and a success, I'll know there's nothing I can't do. Expect pictures here and on my FB profile - where I seem to spend much more time.

Jun. 1st, 2009

Roleplaying for kids

 I've done it about 5-6 times over the past yearm and man! Do I wish I knew more of writing for Cons. Because that's exactly what kids want. Easily grasped storylines. Clear, interesting choices. Exciting combats. Yeah, it's what ALL players want, but children are more unforgiving: If you don't deliver the goods, they start swirling their chairs, poking each other and generally being a nuisance. 

Again, I'm sure that goes for ALL players, but work with me here.

Anyway, there were 5 PCs, a ridiculous mix of Monte's Book of Experimental Might and Arcana Evolved: A warmain, a ranger, a wizard (BoXM), a mageblade and a bard (BoEM2/BoXM)

They encountered:

Disguised blue dragon merchant. Freaked them out, but they accepted his mission: To kill a dragon. The kids meta-gamed here. I'd asked one of them to bring the Gargantuan Blue Dragon, so they thought that'd be their target.

Wall at the Mountains of Despair. Test of teamwork

Lake of Quietude. A nereid king tried abducting the bard - dspite the fact that he couldn't breathe under water. They gave him something he didn't have: A four-leaf clover. The kids struggled a bit but got the hang of this one.

The Dragon and its goblins - for this I took my old Grenadier red and used bugbear stats for its elite goblin minions

The Injured Sphinx - with a riddle that Vibeke unfortunately had heard, so she knew the answer, which to be honest was pretty cool. The sphinx gave them a big clue about the merchant.

The final showdown. They knew the merchant was baad, so they went in prepped to the gills. And it worked out well, and after just over 4 hours, we called it a day, drove to the kids' place and had pizza, a spot of wine and a cold one, before V and I returned home around half past 11.


May. 22nd, 2009

That was it...

 So... My 41st year on the planet drew to a close some 3 hours ago (which means I'm 41 today, of course). Would I recommend turning 40? Well, apparently, you lose your wife, your home and your job within that period - and your mother's hip replacement turns out to be anything but. Instead of replacing a hip, she ends up being in hospital and at home for 9 months with just one hip. You know, I tried working in a joke about getting un-cool when replacing hip, but I decided against it.

However, you also realize that you have amazing friends. Make that galaxy-level amazing. Really out of this world. Friends who listen to you repeatedly and over and over again. Who give you feedback, support and care when you're exhibitionistically screaming raw pain out over your blog. Who help you be able to continue living, build a new life and actually thrive doing so. 

You realize that you're more capable than you thought. And you begin to get an idea of why you went around thinking you maybe weren't that capable in some areas.

And you realize that there is new happiness to be found. Maybe 4-0 was an upgrade which got installed while I still had a few applications running, so there was a period of "what happened to my Internet, where are my desktop icons, and did I miss a memo?" 

It's now half past 7, and in the kitchen and living room, Linda and Vibeke are busy making the breakfast to end all breakfasts. I understand that pancakes, french toast and strawberries will play a part. Later today, we're going to my mom - who's getting home today - for some raspberry pie and ice cream, before we head off to [info]greatbuddah's to celebrate. Linda and I cooked yesterday, and it was just really nice. I know it says a lot about a lot of things when I even find it worth mentioning, but it was just...

I think that was another part of the upgrade: Søren grew up a little bit more.

Oh, and happy birthday, Anders (one of my players), Issa (another of my players' wife); Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Pac Man and Harvey Milk.

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May. 4th, 2009

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 Updating the CV. God, I hate it.

Mar. 5th, 2009

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Just came across this picture of Vibeke at the launderette a week and a half ago. She's getting pretty adept at working a camera, I think.

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Feb. 21st, 2009

Stand by for transmission, my foot!

 I loooove Skype. Just had a great half-hour talk with varianor about wine, social relations through your school-age kids, and ...more wine.

Fuck jet cars - this future is way better!

So anybody on Skype, just find me. You know my name.
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Feb. 19th, 2009

Maximized Micro Word Meme

from [info]varianor 

-Describe me in one word- just one single word. Positive or negative.

-Leave your word in a comment, before looking at what words others have used.

-Copy and paste the meme to your journal to find out how people describe you when limited to one word. 
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Feb. 12th, 2009

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So... The tenant's council got deposed last autumn, and the new ones have apparently decided not to continue with their Fastelavn festivities. But I still want to give V the experience. So what to do? I looked long and hard, until the answer suddenly hit me: Our church. Awesome...
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Feb. 9th, 2009

The things they say...

 V: Why do we have a queen?

S: Because it's a good thing to have. It defines us as a nation, and it's nice to have someone whose only job it is to look out for all of us.

V: What about the (Crown) Prince?

S: Well, he's in training to be the next King

V: Huh? Like on a treadmill with a crown on to learn how to run without it falling off?
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Feb. 5th, 2009

Session recap Feb 1 2009

"Look, I don't care what's at stake! I'm going over to gloat!" - Akeelas

The session began with the group (players and PCs) reading an article in the Courier about the near-death experience of two members of a rival adventuring group. Apparently, the Morro brothers of Ptolus' Light had been in the North Market when a group of men leading two trolls with strange black markings on their bodies had abducted two youngsters.

Anatar and Dalrian Morro had tried fighting off the monsters, but with no armor, they had been soundly defeated and taken to the temple of Isdun, Goddess of Love, where they were still recuperating as the article went to press.

So the gang went to Terrock Road, where they not only saw the marble-fronted temple of isdun, but also a ugly and filthy-looking Temple of the Ebon Hand, which was right across the road. Noting the neighbours, the group entered the temple where a service was in progress - and what a service! Apparently, the clergy took its role as ministers for the Goddess of Love seriously, because... noises came out from a room just off the nave, and glancing through an indecently open doorway, the group could see a priestess in full intercourse with a man. The noises of the act were used as part of a litany performed by three other priests.

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The temple itself was a very open affair. There were quite a few chambers, but none but a few had doors because as a priest told them, "Love is about sharing". They were taken to a more private - and sound-proof! - chamber, where they were told that Dalrian Morro was still bedridden while his half-brother, Anathar was being cured again. And they were taken to the half-elf to talk to him.

The half-elf couldn't tell them much: Two trolls and eight humans had attacked two youngsters and abducted them. The brothers had tried stopping the abduction, but they had been mauled by the trolls and had been taken to the Temple of Isdun in the nick of time. The only thing they could tell the group was that the trolls had had a disgusting, half-tranlucent complexion with black markings on them. Markings not unlike a black hand...

Armed with that information, the group decided to go ahead with their own project and went back down to the lair of the chaos cultists.

After handily disposing of yet another nest of ratmen, they arrived without incident to the site of their latest battle. All the corpses lay as the group had left them, so they carefully ventured forward. Beyond the door from where Iladras the fire priestess and the chaositech gun-wielding, plate armour-wearing medusa had come was a large empty chamber with a nasty magical trap. Beyond the trapped room was some living quarters with quite a few nice riches.


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l-r: Grabbed by a trap! Entering a sumptuous room.

After that, the group moved on, with Veilas - as the best sneaker among them - taking point. They soon arrived at another open area with an ancient building that seemed to have once been on the surface. It was not the first building of its kind the party had seen, but something about this one made Veilas approach it with greater caution. And rightfully so, as he was almost jumped by a rhodintor demon.

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l-r: The DM's got monsters on the brain. Veilas and the rhodintor. And the rest stay at a comfortable distance

But how unlike their last meeting with such a demon! With not too many scratches on them, the party defeated the monster, and soon, Veilas could investigate further, down a staircase inside the building leading down.

There, Veilas found a locked door, and got to work on it. Soon, he had it opened, and he faced a short, wide corridor, 10 feet wide and 20 feet long, which ended in a door quite similar to the one he had just picked open. He carefully moved over while searching the floor until he arrived at the closed door. After looking it over as carefully as he could, he reached out and touched it.

And the other door slammed.

Gas started pouring out through vents in the room, and as he held his breath, Veilas felt the first whiffs of poison lacing his muscles with lead. He still managed to stagger across the corridor and with a speed born of desperation, he managed to pick the door and stagger out. Moving back to the trapped corridor, Tauge and Taric held the door open while Veilas disarmed the trap and got the group through.

Moving on, the party then came to the chaos cultists' prison.

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l-r: A better setup: Flank the monster with the fighters, while the ranged specialists rain down doom on the fiend! Apparently they think documenting the crits will help... Entering the Chaos Cult prison - the jailer hung on to the wall.

In a large, empty chamber, a horrific jailer awaited. The creature looked like it had once been a woman, but extensive mutations had altered her - it - into an absolutely terrifying creature. With a jaws that could virtually unhinge as well as rows and rows of sharp teeth, the creature was a horrifying opponent, but a very well-placed arrow from Eloniel pretty much brought it down.



The prison had a few occupants, including a vicious-looking faen female who claimed to be a wolverine totem warrior. She somehow infected a few other members of the group with her bloodlust and thirst of vengeance, so in short order, they killed off an imprisoned troll and an ogre, who tried to run out after they had opened the door. The key to this, incidentally, was the jailer's hand, as the faen could tell them.

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l-r: Taking down the horrible jailer. Releasing an ogre...

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l-r: ...only to kill it. The cliffhanger: A minotaur fights two warriors while a third lies dying

They moved on, and soon found a hallway which turned out to stretch forever. After a few hundred yards, they heard sounds of combat, and as Veilas carefully turned a corner, he saw a large minotaur battle 3 men, one of whom already lay very still in the small chamber where the fight was taking place.

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